Daily Dose of Common Sense

Here’s a clue, you tax deadbeats: First, pay your taxes. We do. What makes you think you’re above the law? Second, if you’re going to be a deadbeat, please go ahead and post pictures of your big new sailboat or share information about your new high-paying job on Facebook or MySpace. Why? Because the taxman has gotten smarter. Many state revenue agents have started to use social media to track down tax deadbeats.

State revenue agents have begun nabbing scofflaws by mining information posted on social-networking Web sites, from relocation announcements to professional profiles to financial boasts.

In Minnesota, authorities were able to levy back taxes on the wages of a long-sought tax evader after he announced on MySpace that he would be returning to his home town to work as a real-estate broker and gave his employer’s name. The state collected several thousand dollars, the full amount due.

I love it when authorities make arrests by using the criminals’ stupidity against them. Every one of these deadbeats deserve what they get. You can argue that we shouldn’t have to pay taxes, or that our tax rates are too high. But, one or two people shouldn’t be allowed to dodge. Pay up like the rest of us!

Photo courtesy of Flickr: Paul Keleher

A study just released claims that one in ten teenagers has posted a nude or seminude photo of themselves online. This incredibly high number should cause some head scratching. Like a hasty tattoo, these photos could be hard to later remove and therefore haunt these teens for years.

I have a friend who says that everyone should get nude pictures of themselves taken when they are eighteen years old. He says you’ll never, ever look better so document it while you can. Well, I didn’t and now that I’m sliding down towards forty, I have to say I agree with his logic. So, I certainly can’t begrudge teens for taking racy pictures of themselves. But, posting them online? We all know how iron-clad the online privacy is these days. Do these kids care nothing at all for who sees their photos?

I guess the teens uploading these types of photos aren’t planning careers in politics or anything with a morals clause. Nike might not be thrilled with seeing its star player’s bait and tackle all over the Internet, even if they were old pictures. Before she started scene-stealing on Ugly Betty, Vanessa Williams got in a little bit of trouble due to some nude photos, as have many other actresses. I guess if you’re going into porn, building a fan base with some nude photos might be a smart move. But, I doubt very many teens are thinking about future careers or potential employers. So, what about parents, teachers, classmates, neighbors, or other family members? Not everyone would want Mrs. Mitchell or Uncle Bob to see their racy photos on the Web.

Someone needs to remind kids about long-term ramifications and the Internet. Remember the Facebook privacy bruhaha from earlier in the year? The social network giant caught all kinds of flack after saying they own your content–even after you deactivate your account. Nothing ever goes away, folks. Not even when you delete it.

[Via PatsPapers.com]

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Bill Gates recently quit Facebook because he had too many friends. He had trouble keeping track of who he actually knew and which friend requests were from strangers. Although you aren’t Bill Gates, you may still have a little dead weight in your Facebook friend list. Here are some ideas on how to annoy those connected to you and potentially lose some friends.

Mundane Status Updates
“Joe Smith is tired.” Yeah, we’re all tired, Joe. Is that the best you can do? Continually updating your friends on all the mundane tasks in your life just may cause a few folks to de-friend you. So, keep it up with such snooze-alerts as “is bored” and “is going to the gym.”

Talk Politics and/or Religion
Politics and religion are two touchy subjects. People have their own opinions and it’s very hard to convince them to change sides. Talking about your views is a possible way to offend a few Facebook friends who don’t agree, especially if you trash the other side.

Take Every Quiz and Share Results
There are thousands of Facebook quizzes, and some are even entertaining. However, your friends don’t want to know which “Sex and the City” character you are or your Simpsons IQ score. If you want to lose friends, then take all the quizzes you can and publish the results each time.

Keep Sending Invitations
Mafia Wars and Vampires may be fun to you, but receiving invitations to them over and over again is just annoying. We realize that getting more people to play helps your score. And, we don’t care. Lil’ Green Patch may be a good cause, but we’re tired of it. So, if you want to annoy your connections, keep kidnapping people and passing drinks around.

Be an Over-Poster
Everyone has at least one or two over-posters on their friend list. These are people who update their status WAY too often and share links and photos galore. Appearing too frequently in your network’s News Feed is a good way to cause “friend fatigue” and get yourself de-friended.

Tag Friends in Unappealing Photos
Dig up those dusty old photos and crank up your scanner. Horrify your friends! Embarrass your family! It is especially helpful to find pictures where your targets have bad hair days, closed eyes, or strange expressions. And, make sure to tag the photos so everyone can recognize each other.

There are many other ways to annoy on Facebook (like over-punctuating your updates), so feel free to suggest some of your own pet peeves.

Photo courtesy of Flickr: jurvetson

Did you find your old boyfriend or girlfriend on Facebook and glance at his/her current personal photos? Yeah, me too. I’m always surprised when users don’t prohibit personal information from being shared outside their network.

Even if you are a casual Facebook user, you should think about your privacy. When signing up to Facebook, you agree that your personal information will be seen by others. But, who sees it and how it is used are up to you. Most members are unaware of the privacy options on Facebook, but it’s increasingly important to familiarize yourself with what happens to your information.

Recently, it was revealed that a third-party application on Facebook was using member pictures in advertising. So, your profile picture could appear in an ad without your consent. For example, a husband saw his wife’s photo on Facebook, only it promoted his wife to him as a “hot single.”

No, you won’t get paid–or even notified–if your picture is used in an ad as a spokesperson for a product or service. But, you can prevent it from happening. To change the settings:

1. Go to Settings
2. Select Privacy Settings
3. Choose “News Feed and Wall”
4. Choose “Facebook Ads” tab
5. There is a menu “Appearance in Facebook Ads.” Select “No one” and save

Here is a link to a great PC World article, “Can Facebook Be Private?” There are some good general privacy tips here, like how to control who sees your pictures and status updates. Also, a lot of the quizzes and applications can use your personal data if you have authorized them to have access to your account. This article will tell you how to see who you’ve given access to and how to delete any unnecessary ones.

Let’s hope everyone–except our old boyfriends and girlfriends–follow some of this advice.

As summer draws near, thousands of committees are wrapping up plans for their high school class reunions. Parties, BBQs, bonfires, brunches, and parades will take place to gather classmates that we have forgotten. Or, have we? Facebook has made it easy to reconnect with old school chums. So easy, in fact, there’s almost no need to make a pilgrimage to your reunion in order to find those folks you lost touch with.

Facebook claims it has more than 200 million active users, more than two-thirds of which are outside college. Not only that, the fastest growing demographic is the 35 and over crowd. Chances are, if you’re on Facebook, you’ve already been “friended” by old pals you lost touch with, an ex-girlfriend or boyfriend, people you never talked to in school, and people you hardly remember. And now, thanks to the ever-changing status updates, you know every detail (important and mundane) about what’s going on in their lives.

Some say that a virtual connection isn’t as meaningful as chatting in person. However, airfare is expensive and an internet connection is cheap. (And really, you do most of your Facebooking at work anyway.)

If you still want the intimacy only face-to-face can provide, use your reunion budget to spend time with the friends you’re closest to. Most graduating classes have two to four hundred people. How many of those graduates do you really want to hang out with? Instead, get together with friends and rent a beach house or go to Vegas. You’ll probably have more fun than you would if you were listening to the same old yarns around the reunion punch bowl.